I now wish to explain how early childhood teachers can
support abused, neglected or maltreated children as well as their families
within a centre setting.
Parents
and caretakers don't always know that they are being abusive or neglectful. Few
adults actually intend to hurt or neglect children. The American Psychological
Association (2013) support this by explaining that it takes a lot to care for a
child. A child needs food, clothing, shelter, love and attention. Of course all
parents and caregivers want to provide all of these necessities, but they have
“other pressures too” (para. 5). I believe many parents or caregivers
financially struggle to provide for their children, this would come under the
‘other pressures’ category. Having a large family and work commitments could
also become barriers.
As teachers, it is our
professional responsibility to report suspected abuse or neglect as explained
in a previous blog. This can be done in an anonymous manner and therefore the
relationship between the child’s parent or caregiver and teachers within the
setting will remain positive. It can be a very daunting task for a teacher to initiate a conversation
with a child’s parent or caregiver in regards to suspected abuse or neglect,
yet if it is in the best interest of the child, meaning it could enhance their
well-being then it needs to be done. My thoughts are that by having these types
of conversations, it is also opening support up to parents/caregivers.
When teachers discover what
type of abuse, neglect or maltreatment a child is suffering they should do
their best to support the child in as many ways possible while they are
attending the centre. For example, if they are lacking the love and attention
they deserve teachers should provide them with extra nurturing. The American
Psychological Association (n.d.) support this idea by stating that “relationships
with teachers strengthen children’s ability to cope with stress and trauma” (p.
2) that they may be experiencing at home (p. 2). Older children such as three and four year olds who are able to express their feelings to teachers should be encouraged to do so. Often a child will only do this to a teacher they feel really comfortable with. American Psychological Association (n.d.) suggest that children who are uncomfortable with or are unable to express themselves verbally should be encouraged to “act out, write, dictate, or draw events and emotions” (p. 8) to explain the way they are feeling. Personally I have always believed that actions can explain equally to what words can.
Teachers should educate children to understand that it is not okay for any other person to hurt them in any way. Feeney, Moravcik, Nolte and Christensen (2010) explain the importance of teaching children to ask for help if they need it.
Children
learn how to behave by watching those who surround them such as family members,
people in their community, peers and teachers. Computer games, video games and especially
television shows also have an effect on the way in which children behave.
Because early childhood education is seen as an extremely important profession it
is expected that teachers are constantly seen as role models to the children in
their care.
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